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Mexican Hot Chocolate :: Friday Foodie

March 20, 2015 By: babyproofedparentscomment

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I love serving this easy to make hot chocolate, because of the reaction it gets. The cayenne doesn’t kick in fully until after a few sips. The heat makes the chocolate pop and the people say, “WHAT???!” and then “MORE!!!” Serve it with a roasted marshmallow and watch them decompensate. Maybe this is only fun when you’re a therapist, but try it anyway?

Ingredients:

  • 4 ounces milk chocolate, chopped
  • 4 ounces dark chocolate (85% dark if you can find it), chopped
  • 4 cups vanilla almond milk
  • 1/4 teaspoon cinnamon
  • 1/8 teaspoon cayenne pepper
  • marshmallows and/or whipped cream

Technique:
Melt the chopped chocolate in a medium saucepan over low heat. Add the cinnamon and cayenne. Gradually whisk in the milk, about 1/4 cup at a time, until the mixture is smooth and drinkable. Raise the heat to medium, and heat to almost a simmer, whisking occasionally. The idea is to get it nice and hot, without boiling it, which changes the consistency and flavor (not terrible, but not as yummy). Carefully pour the hot chocolate into four small mugs (or one giant one for yourself), top with a marshmallow and enjoy!

Cheryl’ Tips:
This is a great dessert on a cold night. I love how heat mixed with sweet can be such a surprise and so pleasing. Try that combo in your interactions with your partner. Satisfaction guaranteed.

Here’s to Sanity and Braces,

Cheryl

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Gluten-Free Mexican Chocolate Cupcakes :: Friday Foodie

January 30, 2015 By: babyproofedparentscomment

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I have frosting issues. It’s always either too thin or too thick. I also enjoy waiting until a few minutes before party go time to start the actual frosting, which usually creates a crisis. In this case, it was too thick to spread, so I heated it, which made it a different color from the ones I had already done. My solution was allowing my little birthday girl to cover them with pink sprinkles. Pretty! Plus, it’s a cupcake! I appreciate the power cupcakes that look like famous people, but find that simple is often more tasty. This recipe is a variation of one I found on a great website: The Gluten Free Spouse, which is loaded with delicious ideas and great step by step photos. The consistency I get is a cross between a cupcake and fudge. I think that’s a lovely combination. I’ve cut back on the sugar and added some extra spice to give your mouth something new to contemplate, but omit the cinnamon and cayenne to get a basic, yummy treat.

Ingredients:

For the Cupcakes:

  • 1/2 cup gluten-free oat flour
  • 1/2 cup brown rice flour
  • 1/3 cup arrowroot flour (or cornstarch)
  • 1 teaspoon xanthan gum
  • 2 teaspoons baking powder
  • 1/4 teaspoon baking soda
  • 1/8 teaspoon salt
  • 1/2 teaspoon cinnamon
  • 1/4 teaspoon cayenne pepper
  • 3/4 cup cocoa
  • 1 & 1/4 cups sugar
  • 2 eggs
  • 3 tablespoons unsalted sweet cream butter (at room temperature)
  • 1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract
  • 1 cup buttermilk

For the Frosting:

  • 4 ounces cream cheese
  • 1 tablespoon butter (at room temperature)
  • 2 ounces unsweetened chocolate
  • 1 cup sifted powdered sugar

Technique:
Preheat your oven to 350 degrees. Line muffin tins with paper cupcake liners (you’ll need about 20, but don’t stress if your batter makes more or fewer). With an electric mixer, beat the butter and sugar on medium-medium high speed until well blended. Add the eggs and vanilla, and beat on medium until well blended. In a medium sized mixing bowl, use a whisk to combine all the remaining dry ingredients. 1. Add 1/3 of the buttermilk to the mixer, and beat until it’s incorporated and smooth, then add 1/3 of the dry ingredients, beat until incorporated and smooth. 2. Use a rubber spatula to scrape down the sides of your mixer bowl. Repeat steps 1 & 2 twice more, ending on the last of the dry ingredients.

When it’s all mixed up and looks smooth and delicious, scoop batter into the cupcake liners, filling them 2/3rds full. Bake them until a toothpick inserted into the middle of a cupcake comes out mostly clean (a few crumbs will stick, and it’s okay if they’re slightly undercooked – they’ll be like gooey brownies), about 20 minutes. Allow the cupcakes to cool on wire racks until they’re room temperature.

Meanwhile, make the frosting! Melt the chocolate over low heat in a small saucepan and allow it to cool. Combine the cream cheese and butter, beating them with your mixer until they’re smoothly blended. Add the chocolate, and beat until it’s incorporated and smooth. Gradually add the powdered sugar, about 1/4th cup at a time until it’s incorporated and smooth. Spread the frosting on your cupcake and then attack with pink sprinkles. Yum!

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Cheryl’s Tips:
Mistakes are f’ing beautiful, and in many cases, delicious. If you botch a recipe, it means you put your own spin on the directions and got a different outcome. Which means you can’t be tamed. Which means you’re so pretty.

Here’s To Sanity and Cayenne Pepper,

Cheryl

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